Keeping a craft blog is not easy. I just published a post over at Whipup.net that I had been composing for a little while for tips on starting a craft blog. One of the comments so far mentions how you should talk about yourself and your life on your blog… and I think this is an interesting point… I think there is a certain amount of utopian-vision in a craft blog, and an idealized domestic fantasy. Is it all bad?
In a ‘bad mood’ moment, Scratch Craft boldly said she was jealous of the ‘big craft blogs’.
“I have just decided that I hate, no loathe, crafty girly blogs. I’m starting to question what was it about those blogs that made me want to start my own. I get so jealous of the big craft blog girls, they make amazing things and maintain the site. And of course you read their profile and it’s some stay at home mom, which just makes me wonder where do they get the time?”
I know what she means about the SAH (stay at home) craft blogs. I’ve lived in a house with four children, and I know what turmoil that is, so you have to wonder how they can do it all? I suppose in other ways I’m jealous too. I would love to be raising a family, and decorating a house and generally nesting… but that is not the direction I pointed myself in so many years ago.
I work full-time, study japanese, live in Japan (so try to do required touristing), live with my boyfriend, try and cook and bake at home, make the place homey, socialize as often as i can, and try to veg as much as I can, and I write on a couple blogs…. so it’s hard to balance it all. I crochet in all the little cracks and spaces in between but I’m not as prolific as I would like to be.
And on top of that posting online takes alot of time. Before I make a post on a topic, I look online to see what others might have said, so I can link to them. All this ‘research’ takes alot of time.
And on top of that, I’ve probably been too impersonal and dry, and created some utopian vision of creativity and making things. It’s all too much to bear.
Through Michelle of Green Kitchen I saw this article Touch the Spindle wrote about the way craft blogs show a kind of smoothed over image of life.
“I notice, as I read through several (million) blogs out there, a dearth of, well… reality. Is it the nature of craft bloggers (especially the “popular” ones, you know who they are) to just kind of skip over the sticky bits of life? I wonder about what is really going on sometimes…maybe we blog to create a world we most desire, or as an escape, or (in my case) as a way to re - invent ourselves as we would prefer others to see us. Is everyone really so skinny, happy, satisfied, creative and fulfilled? In any case, there’s a lot missing about messy relationships, addictions, resentments and other darkness. I think the silence is deafening.”
I thought that was very true. The craft world is more product-focused. I guess for me, I see this blog as a showcase and focus for my crafting specifically, so I don’t have alot of other personal info on it as well. I can see now that I don’t want to be projecting any image of a perfect life in anyway.
But I don’t know if I feel that comfortable sharing personal intricacies. I don’t want to share trials and tribulations of my family and friends (since it’s not my business to share). I am a person here though, and I do try and share my process here… I just don’t know what the boundaries should be.
If anyone has read my blog and thought I was projecting some kind of domestic fantasy, I promise I didn’t mean to.